Frederick Starr Jr. was my husband's 1st cousin 4x removed. He was born January 23, 1826 and died January 09, 1867 in Rochester, New York.
The following was taken from the "Presbyterian reunion : a memorial volume, 1837-1871" by Samuel Miller (D.D.).
The date of death in the memorial is indeed incorrect. Two other resources about Reverend Frederick Starr, Jr. :
"Memorial Sermon of the Late Rev. Frederick Starr, Jr., the former Pastor of this Church" preached in the Presbyterian Church, Penn Yan, N.Y., Jan. 20, 1867 by the present Pastor, Rev. David Magie
"A Shining Light" a discourse commemorative of Rev. Frederick Starr, Jr., late Pastor of the North Presbyterian Church, St. Louis, delivered to his people, February 24th, 1867 and published by their request by Rev. Henry A. Nelson, pastor of the First Presbyterian Church, Saint Louis.